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Wedding Invitations As Unique As Your Story


Share your unique love story
Share your unique love story

Planning a wedding? Oh, the excitement! But let’s be honest, it can also feel like a whirlwind of decisions, deadlines, and details. One of the first impressions your guests get of your big day is your wedding invitation. So why settle for something cookie-cutter (online template) when you can create unique personalized invitations that truly reflect your style and story? Trust me, I’ve been there—designing invitations that make couples smile and guests eager to RSVP. Let’s dive into how you can craft invitations that are as special as your love story.


Why Custom Invitations Are a Game-Changer


You might be wondering, “Why bother with unique invitations? Can’t I just pick a pretty template online?” Sure, you could, but here’s the thing: your wedding invitation sets the tone. It’s the first sneak peek into your celebration. Think of it as the opening act to the main event. When your invitations are unique and personalized, they:


  • Showcase your personality: Whether you’re quirky, classic, boho, or glam, your invites can shout it loud and proud.

  • Create excitement: Guests get a feel for what to expect—formal affair or backyard bash.

  • Make memories: Beautiful, custom invitations often become keepsakes, tucked away in memory boxes or scrapbooks.


I recently designed for a wedding that was held at what used to be the SSJ convent. The chapel has been renovated a bit but, as a historical building, certain aspects had to be maintained. Such as the gorgeous stained-glass windows. We created a classy stationery set by incorporating a beautiful photo of the stained glass windows at a unique angle and gave guests a wonderful aesthetic for what the wedding would be like.


Close-up view of vintage travel-themed wedding invitation with stamps
The Old Convent stationery suite highlighting the stained-glass windows.

How to Infuse Your Personality Into Your Wedding Invitations


Okay, so you’re sold on the idea of unique personalized invitations. But how do you actually make them yours? Here are some fun and practical tips:


1. Pick a Theme That Speaks to You


Are you beach lovers? Bookworms? Foodies? Your theme can be anything that tells your story. For example:


  • Nature lovers: Think floral prints, leafy motifs, or earthy tones.

  • City slickers: Urban skyline silhouettes or modern minimalist designs. (A Vegas wedding chapel officiated by Elvis?)

  • Music fans: Sheet music backgrounds or vinyl record shapes.

  • Art lovers: Incorporate edited photos or drawings/abstract paintings of your wedding venue.**


2. Choose Your Colors Wisely


Colors set the mood. Soft pastels say romantic and dreamy, while bold jewel tones scream drama and fun. Don’t be afraid to mix and match—sometimes unexpected combos create the most stunning results.


3. Add Personal Touches


  • Custom illustrations: Maybe a sketch of your venue or your pet.

  • Handwritten fonts: Adds warmth and intimacy.

  • Photos: A cute engagement shot or a candid moment.


4. Play with Formats and Materials


Who says invitations have to be rectangular? Try circular, square, heart-shaped or even laser-cut designs. And materials? From recycled paper to acrylic or vellum, the options are endless.


5. Include Fun Extras


Think wax seals, ribbons or belly bands. These details make opening the invitation an experience.


Remember, the goal is to make your guests feel special and excited. When you put your heart into the design, it shows.


Eye-level view of a floral-themed wedding invitation suite with ribbons
These classic with a touch of gold invitations were enclosed in an elegant glittery die-cut folder.

Got Tips If I Want To Design My Own?


If you’re a DIY bride, here are the four most important tips to remember to make your finished products successful.


  • Keep it simple: Don’t overload your invite with too many fonts (there's a good rule-of-3 to remember) or colors (visit color-hex.com to get perfectly curated color schemes that will be easy on the eye.)

  • Proofread: Triple-check names, dates, and addresses. And then ask someone else to proof them too. Are you getting my not-so-subtle hint?

  • Test print: Colors can look different on screen versus paper. And those romantic, swirly fonts may look good on your screen but can you read them once they've been printed?

  • Consider professional printing: Even if you design yourself, a pro printer can make a huge difference in quality. And any printer worth their salt will print a sample or two for free.


DIY is fun, but if you want to save time and stress, I’m here to help with custom designs and all the nitty-gritty details like addressing and mailing and dealing with the printers.


High angle view of laptop screen showing wedding invitation design software
Save the Dates being designed on my laptop

Professional Help Is Worth It


Look, I get it. DIY is tempting. But here’s the thing—wedding invitations are more than just pretty paper. They involve:


  • Design expertise: Knowing what works visually and what doesn’t.

  • Addressing and mailing: Handwriting or printing addresses, stuffing envelopes, and making sure everything gets sent on time.

  • RSVP management: Tracking who’s coming, who’s not, and gently nudging those who forget to reply.

  • Wedding website integration: Including links and QR codes for easy guest access.


That’s where I come in. I custom design wedding invitation suites tailored to your vibe, handle the addressing and mailing, manage RSVP responses, and even call guests who haven’t replied by the deadline. It’s like having a personal assistant (*Secretary*) for your stationery!


Imagine the relief of knowing this huge chunk of your wedding planning is off your plate. You get to enjoy your engagement without the stress of chasing down RSVPs or worrying if your invites arrived.


If you want to explore how I can help you create personalized invitations that are uniquely yours, just reach out. I love turning your vision into reality. You can see examples of my work on the Gallery page.


Making Your Invitations Memorable and Meaningful


At the end of the day, your wedding invitations are a reflection of your love story. They’re a chance to share a little piece of your journey with the people you care about most. So don’t be afraid to get creative, have fun, and make them truly yours.


Here are a few final nuggets of wisdom:


  • Start early: Invitations take time to design, print, and mail. And with me, that includes an unlimited number of free revisions till we get it looking just right.

  • Think about your guests: Consider accessibility (will ALL your guests be comfortable using a QR code?) and clarity (pick your fonts wisely!)

  • Include all the essentials: Date, time, venue, dress code, RSVP info, and a link to your website.

  • Add a personal note: A little message from you can make a big impact.


And remember, whether you DIY or go pro, your invitations are the first step in a beautiful celebration. Make them count!


Close-up view of elegant wedding invitation with calligraphy and floral accents
Palms & Papaya Wedding Theme Credit: Blu Photography & Design LLC

So, ready to create invitations that your guests will rave about? Whether you want to dive into DIY or let a pro handle the details, your perfect wedding invitation is just a few clicks away. Here’s to making your wedding planning journey a little easier and a lot more fun!



**Be sure to investigate copyright laws if you pick a photo or painting that someone else has created.

 
 
 

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